Cathy, I am so sorry for your loss. "Give to the departed eternal rest. Let light perpetual shine upon them."

Cathy - we are so sorry to hear of Roger’s passing. We send our deepest condolences and our prayers.

Cathy, I am so sorry to hear about your husband. Anne Kelleher

Cathy My heartfelt sympathy. Roger was such a kind soul.

Oh I am so sad hearing of Rogers passing. I worked with Roger for many years at Oneida Health. A great man and nurse. Sending love and hugs Cathy.

Cathy, I'm so sorry to hear of Roger's passing. He was a great guy to work with at Oneida Hospital.

Dear Cathy, Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Gregory and I are thinking of you. Roger and you bring back so many memories at Oneida. Gregory and Nancy Cartledge

Cathy, I am so so sorry, Roger served this community for many years. I have missed seeing him and think of you both often. I know many many people have you in their hearts and are praying for your peace. All my thoughts and prayers, Julie Anderson

Cathy- so deeply sorry for the loss of Roger. He had such a profound impact on all of us here in Oneida. I will never forget him. May he Rest In Peace 🙏

I am so very sorry about Roger. Although gruff and stubborn T times, he was also kind and very much entertaining. I really liked him. Again, my sympathies.

Cathy- so sorry to hear of Rogers’s passing. My love, prayers and a huge hug go out to you.

My heartfelt condolences to Cathy and family.

Cathy so very sorry to hear of Rogers passing. He was always a wonderful caring nurse. He will truly be missed. ❤️

I am so sorry to hear about Roger.

So sorry Cathy and family Will always remember all the fun times we had at the hospital when we had the old ER !! Wishing you peace and praying for you all at this sad time Love Dee

So sorry and surprised to hear of Roger’s passing. Spend many times at Oneida working with both Roget and Cathy. You are in our thoughts.

So sorry to hear about Roger... we had alot of good and bad times together in the ER... I will miss his humor 😢 my heart goes out to you Cathy...♥️⚘️

Kathy so sorry for your loss. Roger was a great nurse and coworker. Love and hugs sent to you and your family at this time of sorrow.

Roger was one of a kind and will never be forgotten. Sending hugs, prayers and deepest sympathy to Cathy and family.

Cathy, So sorry to hear this sad news. My deepest condolences.

I’m so sorry Momma, let me know if you need anything, Sarah can reach me day or night! Hugs. You are in my thoughts. Sending love.

To Cathy and family, I am saddened to hear of Roger’s passing. I have many fond memories of him and the ED family. RIP Roger

I am very sorry to hear about Roger. I am a local ham radio operator and his presence on the radio will be missed.

Dear Cathy, we are so sorry for the passing of your hubby! You were a devoted wife and I'm sure the best possible nurse during his long illness. God bless you and your loved ones during this tough time. Love yah always, Kathy and Dave

Roger was my cousin. He was a great guy! We shared alot of memories growing up. I will miss his wit & sense of humor! I will always remember how he traveled across the states, to help care for his dying mother. He showed so much compassion & love.. My thoughts & love are with the family..

Cathy, I am sorry for your loss. You and Roger were great to work with. Praying for you. Kathy

Cathy, I am so very sorry to hear this news. Your loss is great. I have no words worthy of the wonderful memories I have of the first time I met you and Roger. Please accept my condolences. Love you

So sorry for your loss. Cathy. I only met Roger a few times, but I know how special he was to his family and his profession.

Roger was my cousin. We shared many memories growing up. He was like a big brother to me & my siblings, although he got us into alot of mischief! It was good innocent fun! I will miss his wit & sense of humor. He showed so much love & compassion when he came back home to help care for his dying mother. My heart goes out to Cathy, & his family at this time.

Cathy, I am so sorry to hear of Roger's passing. My deepest sympathy for your loss. I will miss his online presence! He often shared a memory of the past, or a song that meant something. A bright light has left our world. My heart to you and his family.

This is such sad news. Deepest Sympathy to Cathy and their families. Roger Pfendler was a great guy and nurse. Many years ago my oldest son, Joe had RSV and back in the day croup tents were utilized…poor baby was 4 months old and never slept. I never went home from the hospital- Peds was on 4th floor then- Roger took Joey in his arms ( night 3) and ordered me to go home and get a shower and collect myself…he promised to care for him until I returned…I was back in an hour and my little Joe was asleep on Roger. I will never and have never forgotten that❤️ RIP Roger. And thank you again💞🙏🏻🙏🏻

Cathy, So sorry to hear of Roger’s passing. I enjoyed working with him. May the angels greet him as he enters heaven 😇

Cathy, OMG. Moe Robinson just texted me with the news and then Effie just sent me the Facebook post. Moe said he had been sick. I have always felt bad we didn't stay better in touch but I thought of u guys often and had hoped to get down there one day.He was my best bud in Oneida,always able to sense when something was up with me, giving support. I can still remember the night he called to tell me Dale had died. It was just another crash for Dale, I figured. I think I went out to feed the chickens and then off to work. I was sitting in the nursing office, alone, when he called, "Did u hear about Dale?" I was speakless. Now Roger is gone 3 days after him but years later. I can't believe u guys were married 38 years, seems like yesterday. That picture is great. Cathy, I am soooo sorry for your loss. I will keep u in my prayers.

It was a pleasure working with Roger and Cathy many years ago at Oneida Hospital- many happy memories . My thoughts and prayers are with you Cathy and your family

I am so sorry to hear the passing of Roger. I visited your mom often so I feel like I know you. You are in my prayers for peace.

Dear Cathy, I’m so sorry ! Roger was such a wonderful person! I loved working in the ER with him!! My thoughts and prayers are with you! ❣️

Cathy, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and Roger in my prayers.

I am so sorry to hear of Roger’s passing. I pray for you and your family. May you find some peace.

Roger was a "one of a kind". I worked night shift with Roger for years. He was a wonderful person with a huge heart. I feel lucky to have known him and considered him a dear friend. My deepest sympathies Cathy.

Heartfelt condolences to Cathy and family. Roger always had a quick wit, thoughtful response, and genuine kindness that I loved. Blessed to have known him and know that each of us is better for having the privilege of knowing him. God Speed Roger!

I am so sorry to hear of his passing. He was kind and had a special humor but was fun to work with. Learned a lot from you both. Take care 🙏🙏

Cathy; I am so sorry to learn of your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Deb Bauer

Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss. I remember Roger from my early teenage years growing up in Hawkinsville, New York. I remember his mom, his dad, and his little brother Norm, a very hard-working dairy farming family. I remember Roger going into the nursing training program when he was an older teenager. I think the last time I saw him was 1978 or 1979. May he rest in the peace, love, and eternal joy of our Lord Jesus Christ. May all of his family be healed through their mourning of their loss.

Cathy, I’m so sorry to hear of Roger’s passing. We were high school friends, and he was very protective of our friend “gang.” With our FB connection, I was able to reconnect when my family visited Kitty Hawk a few years ago. I’m sure you have so many loving memories with him. I hope those memories bring you comfort.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

So many good memories with Roger when we lived in Hawkinsville in our younger days/ they’ll always be cherished. Fly high and be free of any sufferings. Miss you

So sorry to learn of Roger's passing. We shared many Summers as children in Hawkinsville working in the hay lot them swimming in the river above the dam. Rest easy until we meet again.

So sorry to see this message this morning. Roger will be missed. He was a cornerstone of the TOBH ER and would always be there when help was needed. My sincerest condolences to you Cathy.

Hi Cathy, just heard of Rogers passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time.

So very sorry for your loss Cathy. I was always fond of Roger. He was a wonderful to work with.

I have had many long conversations with Roger, and I will miss them. His generosity will not be for gotten. To his lovely wife Cathy, you are not alone we are here for you always.

I’m so very sad to hear of Roger’s passing. He was a good friend all through my school years, and after. My deepest sympathies are with his wife Cathy, and all the friends he has made over the years. May he rest peacefully. Godspeed, Roger.

My heart goes out to all who knew Roger; especially to his Wife and Family. The world won't be the same without our "Blue Duck".

Very sorry to hear of Roger’s passing.

Roger was a member of the gang that hung at our house during our high school years. He was always upbeat and fun to be around. My sincere sympathies to his family. Fly high old friend.

Cathy, I am so sorry to hear about Roger's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers.

Sorry for your lost I grew up in Hawskinville with Roger as many of us did. He will miss by all who knew him. prayers for all of you.

Dear Cathy One of my favorite sayings "A bird may fly away, but we can still remember its song." Holding you and your family in thoughts and prayers. In love and peace Jean Basnight

I am so sorry Cathy. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Cathy, I am so very sorry for your loss. Roger was one of the good guys and an excellent nurse. So many great memories of working together at OHC! I will keep you & your family in my prayers.

Cathy I am saddened by this news. I loved working with Roger even tho he sometimes pushed my buttons ha ha. He was a great nurse, a kind person, and patients loved him.

What a great crew we had - back in the mid 70/80’s. You two were a major part. He will be remembered for his work ethic and passion. Hugs to you and yours♥️

Dear Cathy, So very sorry to hear about Roger. “Well done good and fateful servant”. Always to be remembered in theOBX.

I didn't know Roger that well, but I do have a memory of Cathy talking about Roger a long time ago. I don't remember what we were talking about or where we were, I was just taken in on how Cathy looked. She had a little blush & this glow about her like she was really happy with him. I thought to myself someday I hope to meet someone that has the same affect on me. Some people are just fortunate enough to meet the one person they're meant to be with & that's how I remember Roger & Cathy.

Oh gosh, so sorry to hear about Roger. Enjoyed many a night shift with him in OBX ED. Sending love and prayers,Cathy. I know this is tough

Cathy, We're so sorry for your loss. Prayers for your peace and strength as you grieve his passing. ❤

Cathy , so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family. Roger has had a difficult medical history but took it in stride. He was a wealth of knowledge when the hospital was started and always willing to teach new nurses. Will be thinking of you and sending peace

So sad to hear of Rogers passing. Such a good people, who had a great passion for caring for others. Was blessed to be able to work the night shift with him at the old Outer Banks Medical Center. Rest well my friend. Prayer, thoughts, love and hugs to Cathy and family.

So sad to here, will miss U Roger... Condolances out to his family and prayers...

So sorry to hear about Roger. He was the best!! Such a caring person and great nurse. He will be missed. My prayers for you Cathy and May he rest in peace. Cindy

I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Roger from school, may he rest in peace.

I’m so sorry to hear of Rogers’s passing. We were kindred spirits on Facebook and I will miss our virtual connection. I hope memories of happy times bring you comfort.

Cathy, my deepest condolences.

Cathy, I am so sorry to hear about Roger! He was a special man and will be missed. Hugs to you♡

Cathy, My condolences and prayers for you and your family. I loved working and teaching with both of you before leaving EMS. All my love, Wendi

God bless

Cathy, Joe and I are so sorry to hear the news of Roger's passing. He will be missed on Landing Drive and at the dock. He was a great guy and I always enjoyed his posts on Facebook.