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  1. Carole was my WW leader years ago but we kept in contact for a few years after that . A great Lady that loved her family .

  2. To The Family Of Carole Daughton Mulhearn,

    The loss of Carole has left a hole in my heart.
    I grew up with Carole on Byford Blvd. in Endwell, N.Y. and got to spend many happy hours with her either at my house, her house, or at our friend, Glenna’s house. Aside from hanging out and goofing around, we created our all girls band called”The Beatlettes”, played lots of tag and went to lots of Robbie’s baseball games. We were inseparable from kindergarten through sixth grade which gave us the pleasure of enjoying Carole’s beautiful smile, wonderful spirit and gentle nature which made her so very special.
    She will be missed.
    My prayers I send to you.

  3. Dear Tom, Megan and Julie and all your extended loved ones. I have nothing but fond, fun good memories of Carole. That picture of her is just how I’ll remember her, full of kindness an generosity and joiu de vi. I m grateful for her thoughtful tutoring in weight watchers, fun Risk and Chinese food game nites , baby showers and Beach Boys 4 the of July concerts on the Washington DC mall. May Carole rest well and may God wrap you all up tight in warm comforting loving embraces.

  4. Our sincere condolences to you and your family. I have many fond memories of Carole before your marriage, during and after❤️

  5. Dear Mulhearn Family & Rob,
    My deepest sympathies are sent to you during this time of profound loss. I cannot remember not knowing Carole. She, our friend Charlene and I lived on the same block from the earliest years of our childhood. (As a matter of fact, Carole was exactly one week – 4/6 older than me – 4/13). We were classmates from kindergarten through high school, and although we lost touch with each other in adulthood, I continued to cherish my memories of Carole. She was gifted with wit, intelligence and kindness toward others. A special friend for all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you all.

  6. Tom and family, I am so saddened that Carole passed before I was able to reconnect with her. She was a dear high school friend whom I spent hours on the phone with, nightly, or sitting around her kitchen table drinking tea on Byford Blvd. I’m praying for your peace and comfort as you navigate the passing of your wife, mother, sister, friend.

  7. Oh Meg I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. She successfully coached me through my time in W.W. many years ago. You and your family are in our prayers. May God give you a measure of comfort and peace. Hugs and love. B&A

  8. Dear Tom, Meghan, Julie and family,

    Our thoughts are with you during this sad time. May you have memories for comfort, friends for support, and faith to ease your sadness.

  9. Fran and I are so saddened to hear about Carole’s passing. She was a wonderful person and we have many happy memories of the fun we had together. Our condolences go out to Tom and the girls at this time.

  10. I’m praying that your family finds peace at this sad time. Blessings, Cindy, ( Bob’s sister-in-law ).

  11. Carole was the sister that every brother needs in their life, honest to a fault, not afraid to share her thoughts, caring, smart, loving, and just plain cool when you needed it the most.

    “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal: Love leaves a memory no one can steal”

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Carole D. Mulhearn

October 26, 2022

Carole Daughton Mulhearn passed into the universe on October 26, 2022. She was at home in Kitty Hawk and surrounded by her loving family.

Carole was born in Binghamton, New York on April 6, 1953, the daughter of John and Mary Daughton. She graduated from Maine-Endwell High School in 1971 and received a BA in English from Elmira College in 1975. After graduation she moved to Alexandria, Virginia and took a position as a writer, where she met her future husband, Tom Mulhearn. They married in 1978 and moved to Lynchburg, Virginia, where their first daughter, Meghan, was born. After returning to the DC area they moved to Montgomery County, Maryland where their second daughter, Julie, was born.

In 1994 they moved to the Outer Banks and made their home in Kitty Hawk.

Carole developed friendships all over Northeast North Carolina for her leadership of the Weight Watchers meetings in Kill Devil Hills, Kitty Hawk, Manteo, Elizabeth City and Camden. She was a very kind and effective teacher and counselor who was beloved by all. Years after leaving Weight Watchers she was often stopped and thanked by previous members for her kindness.

She developed a cadre of friends all over the country and abroad, with whom she had close and lasting relationships. Carole loved traveling and took many trips with her family, including to Ireland, Greece, the Mediterranean, the Holy Land, and many others. She was a dedicated cruiser and was very happy on the deck of a cruise ship.

Carole was the beloved wife of Tom Mulhearn and Mom of Meghan and Julie Mulhearn. She leaves behind a brother and sister in law, Robert and Carol Daughton of Athens, New York; her sister in law and great friend, Alison Willis, and brother-in-law Mike Willis. She also leaves behind nephews Michael Willis and Jed Daughton.

Carole was a member of Holy Redeemer Catholic Church in Kitty Hawk. A memorial service will be held at a later time. We are devastated by her passing, but are comforted by the fact that she is with God and has crossed to a better life with no pain.

In her memory, contributions can be made to the new Outer Banks Hospital Cancer Center.

“Say not Goodnight, but in some brighter clime bid me good morning.”

Please share words of comfort with the family at https://gallopfuneralservices.com. Gallop Funeral Services Inc. was entrusted with arrangements.

Condolences

Roxanne Jackson

Carole was my WW leader years ago but we kept in contact for a few years after that . A great Lady that loved her family .

Charlene (Poklemba) Dedrick

To The Family Of Carole Daughton Mulhearn, The loss of Carole has left a hole in my heart. I grew up with Carole on Byford Blvd. in Endwell, N.Y. and got to spend many happy hours with her either at my house, her house, or at our friend, Glenna’s house. Aside from hanging out and goofing around, we created our all girls band called”The Beatlettes”, played lots of tag and went to lots of Robbie’s baseball games. We were inseparable from kindergarten through sixth grade which gave us the pleasure of enjoying Carole’s beautiful smile, wonderful spirit and gentle nature which made her so very special. She will be missed. My prayers I send to you.

Deborah Althaver

Dear Tom, Megan and Julie and all your extended loved ones. I have nothing but fond, fun good memories of Carole. That picture of her is just how I'll remember her, full of kindness an generosity and joiu de vi. I m grateful for her thoughtful tutoring in weight watchers, fun Risk and Chinese food game nites , baby showers and Beach Boys 4 the of July concerts on the Washington DC mall. May Carole rest well and may God wrap you all up tight in warm comforting loving embraces.

Tom and Marlo

Our sincere condolences to you and your family. I have many fond memories of Carole before your marriage, during and after❤️

Glenna Gervais Burke

Dear Mulhearn Family & Rob, My deepest sympathies are sent to you during this time of profound loss. I cannot remember not knowing Carole. She, our friend Charlene and I lived on the same block from the earliest years of our childhood. (As a matter of fact, Carole was exactly one week - 4/6 older than me - 4/13). We were classmates from kindergarten through high school, and although we lost touch with each other in adulthood, I continued to cherish my memories of Carole. She was gifted with wit, intelligence and kindness toward others. A special friend for all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you all.

Grace Zucco Constantz

Tom and family, I am so saddened that Carole passed before I was able to reconnect with her. She was a dear high school friend whom I spent hours on the phone with, nightly, or sitting around her kitchen table drinking tea on Byford Blvd. I'm praying for your peace and comfort as you navigate the passing of your wife, mother, sister, friend.

Noffsinger

Oh Meg I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. She successfully coached me through my time in W.W. many years ago. You and your family are in our prayers. May God give you a measure of comfort and peace. Hugs and love. B&A

Liziane and Ralph Calfee

Dear Tom, Meghan, Julie and family, Our thoughts are with you during this sad time. May you have memories for comfort, friends for support, and faith to ease your sadness.

Gandolfo Corradino

Fran and I are so saddened to hear about Carole’s passing. She was a wonderful person and we have many happy memories of the fun we had together. Our condolences go out to Tom and the girls at this time.

Cynthia Dwyer

I’m praying that your family finds peace at this sad time. Blessings, Cindy, ( Bob’s sister-in-law ).

Rob Daughton

Carole was the sister that every brother needs in their life, honest to a fault, not afraid to share her thoughts, caring, smart, loving, and just plain cool when you needed it the most. “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal: Love leaves a memory no one can steal”

Kim Kalman

So sorry Tom for your loss...I hope Carole's spirit will be with you always !