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Robert W. Nappi
Robert W. Nappi, age 55, died peacefully on Friday, September 22, 2023 at home surrounded by family and friends following a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. Bob was born on April 4, 1968 in Schenectady, NY to Diane and the late Carl Nappi. Bob was a 1986 graduate of Niskayuna High School, in Schenectady, NY.
Bob and his wife Katie, found their “happy place” in Kill Devil Hills when they moved to the Outer Banks in 2019, where Bob worked as a construction supervisor. Bob was an avid fisherman and outdoorsman. He loved walks along the beach, searching for shells and cleaning up the garbage on the beaches of the Outer Banks. He was extremely proud of his shell collection that decorates almost every room of their home. He loved to show off his record breaking deer head from his hunting days in Upstate NY.
If you knew Bob, you knew his quick wit and sarcastic sense of humor. He would give the shirt off his back for anyone he cared about and his selflessness had no limits. He was a wonderful cook and enjoyed entertaining friends at their home. His larger than life personality meant that he never met a stranger! If you just needed a story, he had loads of them to share, although some may have been “fish tales.” Bob’s love for his wife Katie was clearly known as they were commonly known as “KatieBob”, everywhere they went.
Bob is survived by his loving wife Katie and their rescue dogs Harley and Bruno; his mother Diane, his daughters Jessica (Chip) MacLasco, Alyssa Nappi (Matt Harmych) and son Bobby Nappi; adored grandchildren, Rylee and Quinn; his siblings Michele (Joel) Saffer, John (Amy) Nappi and Christopher (Heather) Nappi; his nieces and nephews who he loved dearly, Gabby and Sean Saffer; Emily, Sarah, Cole, and Chase Nappi, and Addison, Hayden and Peyton Nappi.
Bob is predeceased by his father Carl Nappi.
Relatives and friends are invited to Bob’s celebration of life which will take place at Chili Peppers Restaurant (Kill Devil Hills) Sunday October 1, 2023 4 pm to 7 pm. Its potluck with cash bar. Bob’s life will also be honored at a memorial back home in upstate New York October 14, 2023 from 3 -7 pm at the Alplaus Volunteer Firehouse 309 Alplaus Ave. Alplaus, NY 12008. In lieu of flowers, friends and family can make donations directly to the family in Bob’s honor to help offset all expenses from his long battle with pancreatic cancer.
With confidence, the family has placed their trust in the loving care of Gallop Funeral Services, Inc., 6917 S. Croatan Hwy, Nags Head, NC 27959. Please share condolences with the family at gallopfuneralservices.com.
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Katie, every time I saw photo posts of you and Bob together I was always struck by the beautiful smile on each of you. I'm sorry I wasn't fortunate to have known him. Sending love and prayers.
Bob was a very good friend of mine he taught me everything I know about floor covering yes sometimes you could be a real pain in the butt he always got to the point he never had nothing back that's why I love so much about him I'm sorry I didn't get to see him before his passing me his beautiful wife
Bob was a very good friend of mine he taught me everything I know about floor covering yes sometimes you could be a real pain in the butt . But he always told you what was on his mind .he's always right to the point. I'm sorry I wasn't there to see him before he passed away and he is beautiful wife
Katie, we are so sorry for your loss.
Bob, it was a pleasure to get to know you, and to be present at your wedding aboard the cruise ship to Bermuda. We have enjoyed your quick wit and sweet personality. You will be missed. RIP 💔 much love to you, Katie,Denise and Chris
My heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your beloved husband Bob. May the love of God surround you at this challenging time. May He give you peace that is beyond understanding and enable you to go through this. Hugs for you my friend.
Beautiful as Bob's soul. For the short time I knew him. I wish now I spent more time with him.
Sending love to Katie and the family at this difficult time. Bob’s warm and friendly manner made it so easy to love being with him.
I am so very sorry for your loss. All family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Sending lots of love and healing energy. Missy
Katie and family it’s with a very sad heart that I am sending sympathy and love for your family He was a great person and will be missed by many Love and hugs Linda Donaldson
Bob was a great guy wonderful neighbor so easy going. We are very sorry for your loss he will be deeply missed. We are praying for your family .
Your larger than life personality ❤️your kindness and selflessness will never be forgotten and always remembered❤️ we will miss you Bob ❤️rest easy my friend we will all take care of beautiful Katie and continue to celebrate your life. Love Kim and John Banker
We love you so much Bob, and so grateful to be with you for your Baptism October 2022 in Florida. We will take great care of your precious Katie till we are all united with Jesus <3


Katie, every time I saw photo posts of you and Bob together I was always struck by the beautiful smile on each of you. I’m sorry I wasn’t fortunate to have known him. Sending love and prayers.
Bob was a very good friend of mine he taught me everything I know about floor covering yes sometimes you could be a real pain in the butt he always got to the point he never had nothing back that’s why I love so much about him I’m sorry I didn’t get to see him before his passing me his beautiful wife
Bob was a very good friend of mine he taught me everything I know about floor covering yes sometimes you could be a real pain in the butt . But he always told you what was on his mind .he’s always right to the point. I’m sorry I wasn’t there to see him before he passed away and he is beautiful wife
Katie, we are so sorry for your loss.
Bob, it was a pleasure to get to know you, and to be present at your wedding aboard the cruise ship to Bermuda. We have enjoyed your quick wit and sweet personality. You will be missed. RIP 💔 much love to you, Katie,Denise and Chris
My heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your beloved husband Bob. May the love of God surround you at this challenging time. May He give you peace that is beyond understanding and enable you to go through this. Hugs for you my friend.
Beautiful as Bob’s soul. For the short time I knew him. I wish now I spent more time with him.
Sending love to Katie and the family at this difficult time. Bob’s warm and friendly manner made it so easy to love being with him.
I am so very sorry for your loss. All family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Sending lots of love and healing energy.
Missy
Katie and family it’s with a very sad heart that I am sending sympathy and love for your family
He was a great person and will be missed by many
Love and hugs Linda Donaldson
Bob was a great guy wonderful neighbor so easy going. We are very sorry for your loss he will be deeply missed. We are praying for your family .
Your larger than life personality ❤️your kindness and selflessness will never be forgotten and always remembered❤️ we will miss you Bob ❤️rest easy my friend we will all take care of beautiful Katie and continue to celebrate your life. Love Kim and John Banker
We love you so much Bob, and so grateful to be with you for your Baptism October 2022 in Florida. We will take great care of your precious Katie till we are all united with Jesus <3