Joseph Earl Ringer

Butch Ringer,73, made his transition into Spirit surrounded in the love of his family August 25, 2025 in Chesapeake, VA. He was and will always be remembered for his gentle soul, and strong presence.

Butch was an amazing best friend, husband, dad, Papa Butch, Uncle Butchy, son-in-law, brother, and true friend to so many. He was known for his kindness, his laughter, and the way he made everyone feel like family. He loved deeply without condition and was loved by all who knew him.

Butch was a Vietnam Veteran and worked for the Department of the Navy/Naval Security Group Command for over 43 years. He received the Meritorious Service Award, from October 1972 to September 2001, retiring in 2014.

Butch is preceded in death by his mother and father, Joseph R. and Joann K. Ringer, and brother and sister-in-law, John “JJ” and Diane Pickett. He is survived by his wife of 30 years, Kathy O’Neal-Ringer; daughter and son-in-law PJ and Chuck Lane of Norfolk, VA; son and daughter-in-law, Rickey and Chelsea Ringer; grandchildren, Karlee and Emma Ringer of Coinjock; sisters, Lily Stant of Barco, NC and Susan Maloney of Pueblo, CO; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Special thanks to Karen Holston for her amazing support and care; you are an Earth Angel.

A Celebration of Butch’s Life will be held October 4, 2025 from 1pm to 6pm at BJ’s Carolina Café, 7069 Caratoke Hwy, Jarvisburg, NC. Bring your memories and stories to share. In lieu of flowers, donations are welcome at the Currituck County SPCA. Please share a message of comfort at gallopfuneralserives.com. Gallop Funeral Services was entrusted with arrangements.