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Henry F. Barker Jr.
Henry F. Barker Jr., of Kitty Hawk, NC, went to be with his heavenly father and heavenly family on February 12, 2023 at the age of 85. Henry was born September 26, 1937 and raised in Flint, MI to Henry F. Barker Sr. and Anna Pauline Barker Bradshaw. Henry was a veteran of the US Navy, serving on the Destroyer USS Stickell during the Korean War, including shore duty at Little Creek Base, Norfolk VA.
Henry started his civilian career as a Power Plant Operator for Virginia Chemical Company in the West Norfolk section of Portsmouth, VA. for 23 years. He continued his career with Anheuser Busch in Williamsburg, VA for an additional 17 plus years before retiring to Kitty Hawk, NC. After retiring, he became a builder, lumber company manager and a property maintenance officer with Sea Light Properties. Henry was a lifetime member of Southwark Hunt Club in Surry, VA since 1959. He was an avid hunter and golfer and the happiest when he was in the woods with nature, building something or caring for his family.
Henry was preceded in death by his parents; the first love of his life, Shelby Davis Barker; his brother, James D. Barker; and sister, Betty Hitchcock.
Henry is survived by the second love of his life, Barbara D. Barker; two daughters, Laura Kauppinen of Suffolk and Terri Cherry (David) of Portsmouth; and two sons, Daniel Barker (Kerri) of Virginia Beach and Ben Barco (Kelly) of Wilmington, NC. He is also survived by four grandsons, David Lee Cherry Jr. (Megan), Phillip Cherry, Ryan Barker and Rhys Barco; two granddaughters, Sara Kauppinen (Sean) and Vivienne Barco; and three greatgrandchildren, Lucas, Nora and Dayton.
A celebration of Henry’s life will be held at Duck Woods Country Club on March 11, 2023 at 1pm. For more information email henrybarker311@gmail.com. Donations in Henry’s name can be made to your favorite charity or Disabled America Veterans. Please share condolences with the family at www.gallopfuneralservices.com. Gallop Funeral Services was entrusted with arrangements.
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Henry will miss you. I remember when you helped me build the staircase for my deck, and days on the golf course. Rest in peace.
My condolences to Danny and the whole Barker Family and friends.
Barbara, my sincere sympathy for you and the entire family at this most difficult time. May the many memories comfort you.
Having known Henry and being his neighbor for over 30 years, I am truly going to miss him. He knew a little something about everything - and could build just about anything too. I have sat at Henry & Barbara’s dinner table many times and was always treated like family. We have had shared some wonderful times over the years. My deepest condolences to Barbara & his family.
Barbara and family I’m so very sorry for the loss of your loved one. Lifting you and your family up in prayers during this time of loss! Love you Barbara ♥️♥️🙏🙏
Henry was a wonderful man he brought sunshine to my life and to Penn’s life. He was a great addition to our family. Loved him and my adopted Sister Barbara. He will be truly missed🤗🤗🤗🤗
Barbara, we are so deeply saddened to hear of Henry’s passing. Please know you’re in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult journey.
Our sincere condolences to the family. Henry will be missed but the memories of his life will always remain in the hearts of his family and friends.
Barbara, I’m so sad to hear of your husbands passing. I pray God keeps you in his loving arms. Much love to you and your family.
Dear Barbara my deepest condolences to you and your family. Nothing in life prepares us for these times. May your memories bring you Peace and Comfort in the days ahead and beyond. ❤️🙏
We will miss him! Barbara if you need anything just call!
My deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers for Barbara and all of the Barker family. I have known Henry for over twenty years as a helpful and thoughtful neighbor and mostly a good friend. Henry is in his eternal home in Heaven, he was a skillful and talented man, God probably has him building something there. Mathew 5:4
Dan, I was so sorry to hear of such a profound loss to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Hi, please accept my condolences. My name is Daniel Rhine, son of Donald and Dee Rhine. It's been a long time ago but I remember the fun and laughter our families had together during our visits to Virginia. I use to think that we were related, my Aunt and Uncle until later my parents informed me that You guys had been friends for a long time. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Henry, My best friend and golf buddy for many years. RIP
Henry will miss you. I remember when you helped me build the staircase for my deck, and days on the golf course. Rest in peace.
My condolences to Danny and the whole Barker Family and friends.
Barbara, my sincere sympathy for you and the entire family at this most difficult time. May the many memories comfort you.
Having known Henry and being his neighbor for over 30 years, I am truly going to miss him. He knew a little something about everything – and could build just about anything too. I have sat at Henry & Barbara’s dinner table many times and was always treated like family. We have had shared some wonderful times over the years. My deepest condolences to Barbara & his family.
Barbara and family I’m so very sorry for the loss of your loved one. Lifting you and your family up in prayers during this time of loss! Love you Barbara ♥️♥️🙏🙏
Henry was a wonderful man he brought sunshine to my life and to Penn’s life. He was a great addition to our family. Loved him and my adopted Sister Barbara. He will be truly missed🤗🤗🤗🤗
Barbara, we are so deeply saddened to hear of Henry’s passing. Please know you’re in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult journey.
Our sincere condolences to the family. Henry will be missed but the memories of his life will always remain in the hearts of his family and friends.
Barbara, I’m so sad to hear of your husbands passing. I pray God keeps you in his loving arms. Much love to you and your family.
Dear Barbara my deepest condolences to you and your family. Nothing in life prepares us for these times. May your memories bring you Peace and Comfort in the days ahead and beyond. ❤️🙏
We will miss him! Barbara if you need anything just call!
My deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers for Barbara and all of the Barker family. I have known Henry for over twenty years as a helpful and thoughtful neighbor and mostly a good friend. Henry is in his eternal home in Heaven, he was a skillful and talented man, God probably has him building something there.
Mathew 5:4
Dan, I was so sorry to hear of such a profound loss to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Hi, please accept my condolences. My name is Daniel Rhine, son of Donald and Dee Rhine. It’s been a long time ago but I remember the fun and laughter our families had together during our visits to Virginia. I use to think that we were related, my Aunt and Uncle until later my parents informed me that You guys had been friends for a long time. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Henry, My best friend and golf buddy for many years. RIP