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Barbara D. McPherson
Barbara Donatelli McPherson, 64 of Nags Head, NC left the burdens of mankind and earth behind and ascended into Heaven on Saturday, February 10, 2024. Barbara was born on June 20, 1959, in Providence Rhode Island to Vincent and Marion Donatelli and was the youngest of the four children in the family. Barbara spent her entire childhood living on Cottage Ave in North Providence RI and graduated from St. Patrick’s Catholic School for girls in 1977. While attending Rhode Island Jr college in 1979 she met her future husband on a blind date.
They were married on Dec. 10, 1981, in Charleston, SC and she embarked on an adventure that would include living all over the United States and overseas in Asia. In 2005 Barbara moved to the beach in Nags Head, NC and spent her time enjoying the ocean, her two children, five grandchildren, three German shepherds and her cat. Barbara touched many lives in her long journey through life. She was loved by many for her kind nature and willingness to help those in need. A renowned cook, she enlivened many occasions and holidays with her skills as a cook and baker.
Barbara was preceded in death by her parents, and older brother, John. Those left to cherish Barbara’s many deeds and memories include her husband of 42 years and two months, Bob; son Jared McPherson, Jared’s wife April, and their children Colton and Ryan of Kill Devil Hills NC; daughter Rachael Woodhams, Rachael’s husband Chris and their children Caitlin, Brenna, and Avery of Virginia Beach VA. Barbara’s sister Marilyn Donatelli of North Smithfield, RI; and her sister, Lee Sisak of Chepachet, RI, along with many nieces and nephews, other relatives and many friends who loved her and will miss her.
The family is honoring Barbaras wishes for cremation and no services are planned currently. Gallop Funeral Services, Inc. is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences may be expressed at www.gallopfuneralservices.com.
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To one of the greatest women I've ever known, I will always love and miss you and the decades of kindness you showed me. Bob, Jared, and Rachel, I'm sending all my love and thoughts to you ❤️
Barb was my true friend and I loved her and Bob, since the day we met 36 years ago. Barb was always kind, benevolent, and a heck of a good person. I am brokenhearted at her passing but she is now with the Father with a new and healthy body. I will miss her.
My sincerest condolences, Bob. When you are able, you will remember only the best of times and look forward to reuniting with Barbara. I didn’t know her, but I know you, so she had to be a wonderful person! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
I am so sorry to see the notice of Barbara's passing in today's Providence Journal. I went to Saint Patrick's with Barbara. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. I just love her picture.
Such a beautiful picture of Barbara! Words cannot express our sorrow over your family's sudden loss.
There are just not enough words to express the many lives Barbara touched during her life journey. I feel so blessed to be one of one of her friends. Prayers and love to her family. May all the wonderful memories each of you have for Barbara give you comfort and peace.
My deepest condolences to the family. May she Rest In Eternal Peace. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I was a classmate at St Patrick High School
My husband and I were surprised and deeply saddened to hear of Barbara’s passing. We live in Nags Head part time and New York full time. Regardless of the time of day or night our wonderful neighbor, Barbara greeted us with her warm smile and sincere concern for our wellbeing and our home. Several times over the years Barbara called us to let us know if something didn’t seem right with the renters. She always kept an eye on our home which we had great appreciation for. Barbara and I often shared stories of our grandchildren and it was apparent that her family meant the world to her. Our hearts and prayers go out to Bob, the children and grandchildren.
May extend my deepest condolences to Barbara’s family and her sisters. I will always have fond memories of my parents, Henry & Julie and my siblings spending time with Uncle Vinny & Aunt Marion’s home on Cottage St. Or their visits to our home in Smithfield. RIP Barbara
So sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. My family grew up with the Donatelli's in North Providence, RI. My brother Steven was best friends with John. I remember Barbara's good natures spirit when we were kids. May the happy memories bring you peace and comfort. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
My sincere condolences to all of Barbara's family and friends. I grew up with her in North Providence and we went to St. Patrick's together. We had the best time always and she will hold a special place in my heart forever.❤️❤️
Bob, we mourn with you and your family as you grieve the loss of your soulmate. We are with you, heart and soul, in this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. Sending my sympathy, hugs and love to all.
So sad to hear of Barbara's passing!! She was a wonderful, memorable and incredibly important part of our youth!! She will be missed by our entire family and is in our thoughts and prayers.
My deepest condolences for the entire McPherson family. May her soul rest in peace and her legacy continue to live on. Bob and Jared, thinking of you guys and hoping God blesses you both with peace and eases your sorrow.
To one of the greatest women I’ve ever known, I will always love and miss you and the decades of kindness you showed me. Bob, Jared, and Rachel, I’m sending all my love and thoughts to you ❤️
Barb was my true friend and I loved her and Bob, since the day we met 36 years ago. Barb was always kind, benevolent, and a heck of a good person. I am brokenhearted at her passing but she is now with the Father with a new and healthy body. I will miss her.
My sincerest condolences, Bob. When you are able, you will remember only the best of times and look forward to reuniting with Barbara. I didn’t know her, but I know you, so she had to be a wonderful person!
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
I am so sorry to see the notice of Barbara’s passing in today’s Providence Journal. I went to Saint Patrick’s with Barbara. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. I just love her picture.
Such a beautiful picture of Barbara! Words cannot express our sorrow over your family’s sudden loss.
There are just not enough words to express the many lives Barbara touched during her life journey. I feel so blessed to be one of one of her friends. Prayers and love to her family. May all the wonderful memories each of you have for Barbara give you comfort and peace.
My deepest condolences to the family. May she Rest In Eternal Peace. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I was a classmate at St Patrick High School
My husband and I were surprised and deeply saddened to hear of Barbara’s passing. We live in Nags Head part time and New York full time. Regardless of the time of day or night our wonderful neighbor, Barbara greeted us with her warm smile and sincere concern for our wellbeing and our home. Several times over the years Barbara called us to let us know if something didn’t seem right with the renters. She always kept an eye on our home which we had great appreciation for. Barbara and I often shared stories of our grandchildren and it was apparent that her family meant the world to her. Our hearts and prayers go out to Bob, the children and grandchildren.
May extend my deepest condolences to Barbara’s family and her sisters. I will always have fond memories of my parents, Henry & Julie and my siblings spending time with Uncle Vinny & Aunt Marion’s home on Cottage St. Or their visits to our home in Smithfield. RIP Barbara
So sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. My family grew up with the Donatelli’s in North Providence, RI. My brother Steven was best friends with John. I remember Barbara’s good natures spirit when we were kids. May the happy memories bring you peace and comfort. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
My sincere condolences to all of Barbara’s family and friends. I grew up with her in North Providence and we went to St. Patrick’s together. We had the best time always and she will hold a special place in my heart forever.❤️❤️
Bob, we mourn with you and your family as you grieve the loss of your soulmate. We are with you, heart and soul, in this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. Sending my sympathy, hugs and love to all.
So sad to hear of Barbara’s passing!! She was a wonderful, memorable and incredibly important part of our youth!! She will be missed by our entire family and is in our thoughts and prayers.
My deepest condolences for the entire McPherson family. May her soul rest in peace and her legacy continue to live on. Bob and Jared, thinking of you guys and hoping God blesses you both with peace and eases your sorrow.