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  1. Sending BIG hugs to Eric,Tonda,and Catlin during this tough time with Carly’s passing. I had her in my weight-training class at Manteo and First Flight high schools and she was stronger than some of the boys in class and definitely much prettier. Ha! She will be sorely missed by all who knew her and it was a pleasure helping her become a better athlete. Carly is not gone but just not here!

  2. Carly held a special place in my heart. She was such an incredible soul. She was inspirational and giving of her time and wisdom to everyone she met. My prayers are with you all. She will forever be remembered for the mark she made on this world.

  3. Dear Eric and Tonda. I tried to call you. I am heartbroken! I am so sorry for your loss of such a beautiful daughter. I’ll never forget Carly. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
    Mark

  4. Tonda and Eric, I was so sad to see this. It has been many moons since we worked at Evan’s Crabhouse! It was the year you got married! I wanted to let you know that I am keeping all of you in my prayers. Sending love, hugs and wishes to you all.

  5. Tonda, Eric, & Catlin,
    This has been devastating to our entire family. We sure did have great times and memories at the beach and on the court. We loved both of your kids as our own. We are so sorry for this unimaginable loss. Rest easy sweet girl. Sending prayers of comfort & peace.

    Love, Sharon, Jake, Robert & Jacob

  6. We were saddened to hear of your daughter’s recent passing. We can only imagine the heartbreak you all are going through. Sending love, strength, and gentle healing.

  7. Sending all of my thoughts and prayers to all you. I loved Carly so much as my first ‘child’ and I will also remember her as the sweet little girl. I know she will be missed by everyone who was lucky enough to know her! ❤️❤️

  8. Eric,Tonda, and Cat-man…I was shocked and saddened to learn about Carly😥 It’s been years since our families spent time together but the memories are priceless! My thoughts, prayers, and condolences are with you all✝️🙏😥

  9. Carly held a special place in my heart. She was a truly beautiful soul who inspired so many women to find their purpose in life. I am sending prayers for comfort and peace to you all. She will never be forgotten, but will always be missed.

  10. Tonda Eric and Catlin,
    I wish I had the right words to say. The world lost such a bright light. I will never forget the wonderful memories we made together as kids. She will have a special place in my heart forever. Sending you all of my love and prayers for strength and healing.
    Love always,
    Steph

  11. Tonda, Eric and Catlin, we are so very sorry at the loss of Carly. Our hearts and prayers are with your family🙏🏻❤️

  12. Sending you all the biggest hugs! Carly lit up any room she was in and had one of the biggest hearts of anyone I’ve ever met. I will miss her something fierce. 🩷

  13. Tonda and Eric I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. Sending love and prayers to you. Sheriee and Summer

  14. Eric and Tonda, I am so sorry to learn about Carly. My thoughts, prayers, and condolences are with you and your family.

  15. Dear Tonda, Eric, Catlin and family,
    Our hearts were broken when we heard of Carly’s passing. Know that we hold you all in our prayers trusting God to bring the comfort only He can supply.
    With deepest sympathy,
    Pam & John Buscemi

  16. Dear Eric and Tonda. I’m sending my deepest condolences of the passing of your daughter Carly. I was shocked, and saddened to read about your loss. No parent should ever have to experience losing a child no matter what age. It’s 12 weeks today that I was notified of my son Bart’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Feel free to call anytime. I understand completely what you’re going through right now.

  17. We share in your sorrow and know that we and the Raynor family and many of us are praying for you and the family. Our deepest sympathies to each of you.

  18. I am so sorry to hear this. Carly was such a joyous addition to that magical Manteo HS 2003 volleyball team.

  19. Such a tragic loss. Find peace beautiful girl. Tonda and Eric, no words just sending hugs to both of you

  20. Dear Tonda, Eric and Catlin
    We are so saddened about Carly.
    She was a beautiful image of you.
    I can never forget her sweet voice on the phone and her beauty.
    Absent from the body, present with the Lord.
    We love your family.
    Bud and Nancy

  21. Though I moved from the OBX years ago, I have many fond memories of Carly. We first met her with DC recreation ball, and then in school sports. Indeed, she was a very gifted athlete, beautiful child, and standout in every way.

    Please know that I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss, and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

  22. Eric, Tonda, Catlin and family,
    My heart breaks for you all of the tragic loss of beloved Carly. My family will hold forever dear the memories we shared with all of you over the years of growing up together and will treasure them. May the grace of God be with you always and his healing mercies bless you with his comfort.

  23. We were so sorry to hear about the death of your daughter. Even though we didn’t know her, we are thinking about you in your time of sorrow. Please feel you can call on us for assistance of any kind. Your neighbors, Chris & Carol

  24. Tonda, Eric and Catlin we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your Beautiful Carly. We have wonderful memories of when we lived in Manteo, and our kids were babies. Catlin and Carly were so adorable! We always enjoyed seeing you all thru the years, when our high School teams played each other. Please know that we are thinking about your Family ,and are sending hugs and prayers. Sincerely, Victoria, Howard, Will Williams, and Lauren Williams Johnson.

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Carly Deniece Pruitt

November 23, 2025

Carly Deniece Pruitt, 37, cherished daughter of Eric and Tonda Pruitt, sister of Catlin Pruitt, went to be with her Heavenly Father, November 23, 2025. Carly was predeceased by her grandparents, Freddie and Barbara Pruitt and Jim and Kit Eldreth.

Raised on the Outer Banks, NC, Carly attended Manteo High School through her sophomore year, graduating from First Flight High School in 2006.  She excelled in both volleyball and basketball. She went on to play volleyball at the collegiate level and was named All American. She was an incredibly talented athlete and to watch her play on the court was truly awe-inspiring.

Carly graduated from Howard Community College in Maryland with a degree in dental assisting and radiology. In continuing her studies, she recently completed her Peer Support Specialist & Wellness Recovery Action Planning Certification through the Beloved Haven Organization. Her mentor, Stephanie Benton said, “she had an incredible gift for inspiring others that will be greatly missed by all.”

Left to cherish Carly’s memories are her parents, Eric and Tonda Pruitt; her brother, Catlin Pruitt (Kelly); nephews, Connor and Dominic; nieces, Emme and Camden; uncle Jimmy Estep (Lane); and cousins Beth, Kera, Amy and Grace. As well as her devoted friends, Maria Daniels, Megan Wunders and Stephanie Benton.

In lieu of flowers, family request donations be made to Beloved Haven, http://www.belovedhaven.org, mailing address: Beloved Haven, PO Box 503 Moyock, NC 27958

A celebration of Carly’s life will be held at a later date. Gallop Funeral Services in Nags Head has been entrusted with the arrangements. Friends and loved ones are invited to share expressions of sympathy with the family, at gallopfuneralservices.com.

Condolences

Ronnie Hudgins

Sending BIG hugs to Eric,Tonda,and Catlin during this tough time with Carly's passing. I had her in my weight-training class at Manteo and First Flight high schools and she was stronger than some of the boys in class and definitely much prettier. Ha! She will be sorely missed by all who knew her and it was a pleasure helping her become a better athlete. Carly is not gone but just not here!

Stephanie Benton

Carly held a special place in my heart. She was such an incredible soul. She was inspirational and giving of her time and wisdom to everyone she met. My prayers are with you all. She will forever be remembered for the mark she made on this world.

Mark Grossman

Dear Eric and Tonda. I tried to call you. I am heartbroken! I am so sorry for your loss of such a beautiful daughter. I'll never forget Carly. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. Mark

Carolee Tillett

Tonda and Eric, I was so sa

Carolee Tillett

Tonda and Eric, I was so sad to see this. It has been many moons since we worked at Evan’s Crabhouse! It was the year you got married! I wanted to let you know that I am keeping all of you in my prayers. Sending love, hugs and wishes to you all.

Sharon & Jake McClease

Tonda, Eric, & Catlin, This has been devastating to our entire family. We sure did have great times and memories at the beach and on the court. We loved both of your kids as our own. We are so sorry for this unimaginable loss. Rest easy sweet girl. Sending prayers of comfort & peace. Love, Sharon, Jake, Robert & Jacob

Rich and Stacy Bowman

We were saddened to hear of your daughter’s recent passing. We can only imagine the heartbreak you all are going through. Sending love, strength, and gentle healing.

Cheryl Kakretz Card

Sending all of my thoughts and prayers to all you. I loved Carly so much as my first ‘child’ and I will also remember her as the sweet little girl. I know she will be missed by everyone who was lucky enough to know her! ❤️❤️

Grady Winstead

Eric,Tonda, and Cat-man...I was shocked and saddened to learn about Carly😥 It's been years since our families spent time together but the memories are priceless! My thoughts, prayers, and condolences are with you all✝️🙏😥

Stephanie Benton

Carly held a special place in my heart. She was a truly beautiful soul who inspired so many women to find their purpose in life. I am sending prayers for comfort and peace to you all. She will never be forgotten, but will always be missed.

Kathy & Ken Rogers

Tonya & Eric our hearts are breaking for yall. I loved Carly so much she was beautiful inside and out.

Stephanie Jones

Tonda Eric and Catlin, I wish I had the right words to say. The world lost such a bright light. I will never forget the wonderful memories we made together as kids. She will have a special place in my heart forever. Sending you all of my love and prayers for strength and healing. Love always, Steph

Lynn and Billy Diggs

Tonda, Eric and Catlin, we are so very sorry at the loss of Carly. Our hearts and prayers are with your family🙏🏻❤️

Betty Vandivier

Sending you all the biggest hugs! Carly lit up any room she was in and had one of the biggest hearts of anyone I’ve ever met. I will miss her something fierce. 🩷

Ron Bennett

Becky, Ryan, Brent and I are so very sorry to learn of your loss. Praying for strength for you and family.

Sheriee Alker

Tonda and Eric I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. Sending love and prayers to you. Sheriee and Summer

Bill Barrera

Eric and Tonda, I am so sorry to learn about Carly. My thoughts, prayers, and condolences are with you and your family.

Pam Buscemi

Dear Tonda, Eric, Catlin and family, Our hearts were broken when we heard of Carly’s passing. Know that we hold you all in our prayers trusting God to bring the comfort only He can supply. With deepest sympathy, Pam & John Buscemi

Jean Kramlik Murtha

Dear Eric and Tonda. I’m sending my deepest condolences of the passing of your daughter Carly. I was shocked, and saddened to read about your loss. No parent should ever have to experience losing a child no matter what age. It’s 12 weeks today that I was notified of my son Bart’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Feel free to call anytime. I understand completely what you’re going through right now.

Mojo & Bonnie Collins

We share in your sorrow and know that we and the Raynor family and many of us are praying for you and the family. Our deepest sympathies to each of you.

evelyne ottavio

Heartfelt condolences to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christine Boyle

I am so sorry to hear this. Carly was such a joyous addition to that magical Manteo HS 2003 volleyball team.

Laura O’Neill Youmans

Such a tragic loss. Find peace beautiful girl. Tonda and Eric, no words just sending hugs to both of you

Nancy Call

Dear Tonda, Eric and Catlin We are so saddened about Carly. She was a beautiful image of you. I can never forget her sweet voice on the phone and her beauty. Absent from the body, present with the Lord. We love your family. Bud and Nancy

Ruth Brewington Dalton

Though I moved from the OBX years ago, I have many fond memories of Carly. We first met her with DC recreation ball, and then in school sports. Indeed, she was a very gifted athlete, beautiful child, and standout in every way. Please know that I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss, and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Teresa Quinn Strandberg

Eric, Tonda, Catlin and family, My heart breaks for you all of the tragic loss of beloved Carly. My family will hold forever dear the memories we shared with all of you over the years of growing up together and will treasure them. May the grace of God be with you always and his healing mercies bless you with his comfort.

Chris & Carol Sterner

We were so sorry to hear about the death of your daughter. Even though we didn't know her, we are thinking about you in your time of sorrow. Please feel you can call on us for assistance of any kind. Your neighbors, Chris & Carol

Victoria & Howard Williams

Tonda, Eric and Catlin we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your Beautiful Carly. We have wonderful memories of when we lived in Manteo, and our kids were babies. Catlin and Carly were so adorable! We always enjoyed seeing you all thru the years, when our high School teams played each other. Please know that we are thinking about your Family ,and are sending hugs and prayers. Sincerely, Victoria, Howard, Will Williams, and Lauren Williams Johnson. ,